I had a misunderstanding one night with my wife. We were exchanging words,but hers was the loudest,she lamba GBst me,insulted my head and Holy Moses,finished me with her mouth,she was even saying she hate me with a passion,she regreted the day she even fall in love with me. I was moved to beat her that night,but I remember the words of my father,"DO NOT EVER BEAT YOUR WIFE NO MATTER THE PROVOCATION." There are are lot of punishment you can give her and will hurt her. I wanted to take a walk,but it was night. I absolve the pains of the insults,we slept. The following morning,she came and knelt down,apologised and we move on. After then,I told her if not for my fathers advice I adhered to,I should have beating her mercillesly. She also told me,she was expecting a beating and she had kept "Tabarya"(Pistle) that she will used to hit me in the head had it been I beat her. My people,na the biggest pistle of the house. Na dead be dat oooooo! She will be arrested and my family is gone because one of us doesn't have patience and devil will be rejoicing.
As a husband and a father, you need to be patient and exhibit a lot of maturity. Do not react to every provocation from your wife. If you react to everything that your wife does, you w
ill almost kill her with beating. I understand that women have sharp mouth.
